Help Your Daughter Take Care of Herself during her Period

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By the Dot Girl™ Moms

Gone are the ancient days when semi nomadic women menstruated together according to the cycles of the moon. During menstruation these women would actually take a break from their domestic work in order to rest and pamper themselves. While most of us have been taught to keep up with our busy lives during menstruation, a little bit of pampering now and then can be a healthy habit as well as a wonderful opportunity to connect with your daughter. Teaching your daughter to take care of herself during her period will help to build a lifetime of good habits and self esteem.

Most advice for general well being such as eating sensibly, exercising and getting the right amount of sleep also applies during menstruation. Now is the time to encourage your daughter to establish a special routine during her period that can relieve discomfort and improve her overall attitude about menstruation.

Stretching is a great way to keep muscles limber and relaxed. Sit on the floor with a straight back then bend your knees so that the souls of your feet touch, now gently pull your feet inward. Or, while standing with legs shoulder width apart, gently lunge from side to side. Both of these stretches will help to limber up the pelvic region. Add some deep breathing to increase the amount of oxygen reaching the muscles.

Start a monthly ritual of sitting down for a shared pot of tea. Earl Grey with bergamot and Chamomile are known for their relaxing and mood lifting properties. Offer an empathetic ear if your daughter needs to gripe about her period.

Give your daughter a specially scented body wash or lotion to use during her period. While regular bathing is sufficient to prevent the worry of any menstrual odors, having something special to use might give her something to look forward to.

Reheatable rice bags, hot water bottles and heating pads can work wonders to ease muscle spasms. Apply a few drops of essential oil of lavender to the rice bag for added pain relieving benefits.

Encourage your daughter to share with you and her friends. One thing that hasn't changed since ancient times is that girls and women still look to each other for support. And sometimes, when it comes to periods, talk is the best relief!

About the Dot Girl™ Moms

Two sisters, Terri and Kathy, founded Dot Girl™ First Period Products. Who better than two women who are also daughters and mothers to honestly address an uncomfortable topic?

Their motivation to create The Dot Girl's First Period Kit™ grew from their own awkward teenage experiences. Despite the fact that their mother was a wonderful nurturer to four daughters, she was never comfortable talking to them about their bodies. They found that this is more often the rule than the exception for both moms and dads. And the reality today is that parents often find themselves in the awkward position of having avoided the subject at all costs, to the detriment of their daughters.

Terri and Kathy's goal is to provide parents with the tools they need to explain the basics of menstruation to their daughters. And for the girls, they hope to lessen their anxiety about their first period and instead turn it into a positive experience. For more information, please visit www.dotgirlproducts.com.

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Jamie, 2/21/2009 9:01:34 AM
I think this is a great way to embrace being a woman. Having periods is only one aspect of this adventure. Unfortunately, sometimes, it can be the ONLY aspect associated with being a woman. Kudos for recommending ways to celebrate it and let young women know it is not all about pain and blood - and ways that moms can reach out and bridge the all too often uncomfortable topic of menstruation with their daughters.

lisa, 3/30/2009 4:48:39 PM
my doughter and i have bonded alot more since you helped us with uor talk. and we both feel better about it.

fahema, 3/31/2009 5:54:02 PM
cool i started my period n i told my mum we were always close!

judy, 4/1/2009 7:53:57 PM
I am a grandma of 65 back when I was a young girl Kotex had a book which you could read about what happens to your body and why you have a period this was the most wonderful book I owned which explained everything you wanted to know. I have been looking for this for my Granddaughter by chance is this book around some where?
Thank you bkbk2468@wowway.com

Carole, 4/3/2009 9:36:23 PM
It's a great source for mom's. I've always been open about that stuff with my mom, and it's great to know there is help for people who feel uncomfortable.

jhaolala, 4/8/2009 6:02:30 AM
i got my 1 period on 25 december iwas literallyyyyyyy damn scared n i started 2 cryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Alli, 4/10/2009 6:13:01 PM
I've got a niece who goes through tampons quick. a box of 20 in roughly a day and a half. she's being raised by her dad. can i get some tips as to how to talk to her about it.

isis, 5/2/2009 2:11:00 PM
well i really want my period to start i get this milky substance in my underwear an it feels ike it is my period but its not????i want it so bad>>>>>>>>>>> any advice/

rach, 5/3/2009 9:09:51 PM
i get that stuff to i also want my period to start

taqera, 5/9/2009 3:42:09 PM
thank u for making this web site my dauhter is telling me her period is on and it has been a week .I need help please help me to god.lets just hope our kids period will stop anytime soon lets just pray to god that it will never come back

mikayla, 5/27/2009 5:32:42 PM
alli wat kind is she using? light reg super,ect. because if she has a very heavy period and uses only lites she will. i go thru a lite in 10 mins. also talk to her about how to tell when u really NEED to change ur tampon and when u dont. have her visit wen shes on her period and have her use the correct absorbancy and tell her not to change it till it leaks. then you no how long it is before u need to change.
hope i helped,
Mikayla

J, 10/27/2009 2:29:28 PM
My daughter who is only 11 - started her period recently. She didn't even tell me when it started or anything. The only way I noticed was when I was doing the laundry. I told her she could ask/talk to me about it and I would be more than happy to go over things with her. But she isn't interested in talking about it. I tried her grandma and asked if she knew anything about it (they are very close) and she hasn't mentioned it to her either. What can I do? How can I get her to confide in me about this (we are close)? Any suggestions would be great.

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